Breakups are never easy to handle. While we are with someone, they become a part of our life. We begin to frame our schedules around them. Movie nights, date nights, talk sessions, fooling around sessions – almost all of our sessions are with them. We sleep to a text from them and we wake up to a text from them as well. After all this, when things break you apart, you go through denial for a while. However, then you realise that what you basically needed was their love. Please know that not all breakups are a sign for you both to get together. Sometimes, it is good to let go, but sometimes, letting go is a mistake. If you have just broken up and you’re of the latter category, then you want them back in your life. Here are a few simple ways to bring them back in your life.
Make sure that this is the right thing to do.
After a breakup, you become extremely emotional. You don’t care what the reason it but no matter what the reason is, you are left far more emotional. You’re cranky and upset most of the times, and at those times, what you really need is a reality check. Yes, right now all you want to do is to bring that person back in your life but do you think it is the right thing to do? Was your relationship making you cry? Were you both always fighting? Was there more screaming than peace? Right now, most of you would say that you were an amazing couple who never fought, but don’t lie to yourself. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that this breakup is not a blessing in disguise. Most breakups are.
If you cannot make up your mind on your own, go to an unbiased friend or an unbiased family member and ask them for their opinion. If they are really worth getting your self-respect crushed for, then go for it.