Getting married is one of the biggest decisions of your life, and it requires a lot of critical and analytical thinking before making this one important decision. Going in too early for marriage can destroy your life for the years to come. All the years you will feel guilty for committing in haste, and will never be able to accept the marriage completely. Yes, we know all your friends are already married and your parents are pressurizing you to take this step, but it is not necessary that you are ready for it, as well. Read why:
5. You do not really trust him
Trust is the building foundation of a relationship, and if you have any doubts about trusting your boyfriend right now, then I am sorry but marrying him too early will be one of the biggest mistakes of your life. When you are marrying someone, you are trusting them with your life. Being a man, he will be your guard, your care taker and every support that you require. Are you sure you want to trust him with all these important responsibilities? I don’t think so. Ponder over the thought again and you will realize, it is too early right now. Give him some time to build up your trust, and then take this step.
4. You do not get along well with his family
If you do not really like his family, then you are putting yourself in a lot of trouble by going in too early in your marriage. These are the people you have to live with all your life, and it is necessary that you get along with them well. Spend some quality time with them to know them better. At least a year, is what you need to fully establish your judgement about them. Do not rush upon this decision, for it will land you in multiple problems. Think for yourself.
3. You want to enjoy your freedom
Marriage is a heavenly prison, that puts you in multiple bounds once you say a ‘yes’. A person has all the freedom to enjoy till the mid-20s; do you really want to destroy this freedom that you have? Enjoy your life as a free bird as much you can, before marriage confines you within its numerous limits. You may not know it now, but if you go on too early in your marriage, you will regret this loss of freedom all your life.
2. You shy away from commitments
If you are one of those that shy away from commitments, then my friend you need to stop thinking about marrying him. This is too early for this step, and you need a lot of work on yourself before taking this burden over your head. You are scared of making small promises and you want to make the biggest promise of your life? The promise to be with each other, through all thick and thins, all your lives. Think again, before it is too late.
1. You are not completely honest with him
Despite you having all the love and affection for him, you don’t feel that you are completely honest with him. You still get attracted to other good looking guys. If you want to marry him, ensure that he is the only guy in your world. Build up honesty, otherwise it is too early to opt for marriage.