“1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have been victims of [some form of] physical violence by an intimate partner within their lifetime”
What I have to say will now make more sense to you. When you have this amount of violence existing amongst two people who love each other, the last and possibly the worst way out is getting divorced and parting ways. If you’re a victim of violence, please understand what your rights are and act on them. This is the age of the internet and there plenty helpful material online to help women getting divorced.
Let’s also clear here that one should not go so far until you are completely sure about why you are getting divorced. Sometimes, many ways of creating harmony exist but in our rage, anger and being stuck in a situation, we are unable to see how to get out of it without getting divorced. Get a third point of view, counsel and then come to a conclusion. For your understanding, I’ve jotted some paramount reasons why getting divorced is now the only option left for you,
5. You’re constantly brewing ‘escape thoughts’
Such a time has come that you can’t think of anything but to get out of the marriage that you are in. if your mind is constantly thinking about ways to get out of the marriage rather than trying to solve the problem at hand, then it is your time to take the exit.