If a relationship is meant to last, it tends to survive every kind of fight, misunderstanding and problem. However, if it is meant to end, there is nothing that you can do to save it. No matter of tears will bring back the person, and if sympathy does bring them back, it will only happen again. Therefore, once you breakup and whether you decide to move on or try to bring back the person, there are a few things that you must consider. Here they are:
The negativity they brought
Once you break up, your mind takes you back to the best time of the relationship – when everything was all about sunshine and rainbows. However, relationships are also loud and ugly thunderstorms. When you decide that you have to move on from this person, you need to focus on the negativity they brought on your life. There will always be times when they annoyed you, got mad at you or broke you apart. Focus on those times and stay realistic. Remember that the start of every relationship is always beautiful.