It is the general rule of science that when an object becomes too unstable, it is evitable that it will met doom. Similarly, a relationship needs to be a balanced bond where the two people are just rightly dependent and rightly independent. They need to be each other’s strength and that is how interdependency works. If you are too dependent on your partner, you start appearing as needy – or worse, an attention seeker. Here is how you can be less needy in a relationship:
Trust your partner.
If you are in a relationship and you want to be less needy, the first thing that you need to teach yourself is trusting your partner. When you are in a relationship, trust is a very important pillar. If you cannot trust a person, you do not deserve to be with them. If they are out eating with their friends, you cannot just all of a sudden doubt them and start asking for their attention. You need to trust them and let them have some fun. Thy will come back to you anyway because they love you. Make peace with it!