There can always be a million reasons for couples to last long and stay together. However, certain small things can have significant impact and lead to two people breaking apart. A lot of times, it is very to identify that a doom is imminent and coming soon – however, that, in no way means that it is inevitable. If two people love each other and they want their bond to survive, they will go through all hurdles. Look at two people in the first year of their relationship and you will notice how they fight every struggle to make sure that their bond lasts. Here is what you, as a couple, can do to prevent breaking apart:
Get out of denial and accept that it is happening.
The two of you are breaking apart. Things are very different from how they once used to be and you obviously see it. However, you are staying in denial and not accepting that something needs to be done. The two of you need to sit together and see that things are going bad. The two of you are losing this cherished bond and you need to get out of denial as soon as possible. Sit together and talk about what is happening and list down all the possible reasons for it. Then start the work towards reconstruction.