We’re sure you’ve seen this joke floating around the internet about life that goes like, “I didn’t know you were an expert on my life. Please continue while I take notes..”
Well, this holds far truer when it comes to every Tom, Dick & Harry giving relationship advice. Hello girl, you really need to be smart here about who you listen to and who you don’t. On top of everything, you shouldn’t let any third person dictate how you should be dealing with your relationship. Anybody might think they are the best people to give relationship advice to others but never forget, they are not in your shoes to know exactly how your life looks like.
Here are some relationship advice that should go in from one ear and out from another,
6. The Right One Will Require No Effort
Ahem. Ahem. Excuse me? Everything requires effort. Even if you need a glass of water, you will have to make the effort of getting up out of your comfortable sofa, go to the kitchen, fetch a glass, pour some water and then drink it. See the process? If drinking water requires so much effort, who gave this crappy relationship advice that making a relationship successful will not require effort?
5. The Fun Doesn’t Last Long
When you are in a relationship with someone, obviously the first few months/weeks are super fun. They are bubbled with love, passion and an extreme drive of emotion. But it is only natural that two people settle with each other’s routine and everything becomes very routine-like from there on. But isn’t that the beauty of a relationship? Anyone giving this relationship advice clearly has no idea about the fun two people can have when they share the most boring of all things together. Falling into a routine is not synonymous with ‘no fun’.