When you are in love, it feels like your entire life revolves around this person. You try your best to make them happy and your favorite moment of the day is when you’re next to them. However, with the passage of time, the two of you become used to each other and the relationship becomes more mature. However, if that doesn’t happen and your relationship becomes obsessive, things will become dirty. Here is a difference between love and an obsession:
6. Nothing goes beyond ‘us’.
Everything is your life is about ‘we’ and ‘us’. There is no such thing as I anymore. You’re an individual with a separate identity than your boyfriend. The two of you are together just because you appreciate how the two of you are. That does not mean that you both are supposed to let go of your lives and make everything about each other. An obsession never ends nicely.
5. You hardly talk to your friends.
Remember when you were experiencing love and not an obsession? That was when you had other friends and people in your life. You would spend time with them, have boys time or girls night out. You had maintained a balance between your love and your normal life. However, now you hardly get time to be with your friends.