When you are romantically involved with someone, you are basically looking for the kind of bond that makes you feel like you are a lot more than an option for them. You want to be his priority. It is cliched saying but it is extremely true when they say that you should be part of someone’s life who takes out time for you instead of saying that they have got no time for anything in this world. Here are a few signs that show you that he is treating like you an option, not his priority:
Last moment plans.
You are not his priority because you are always a last moment plan for him. You think that he probably called you at odd hours wanting to go out with you because he was thinking of you, but the truth is far more different. He called you because he is bored and he has no one else to hang out. As a result, he chooses you because he knows that you won’t say no. Stop being his last option.