Being in a relationship and having someone as your support is amazing. It is beautiful to be reminded by someone else that you are lovable. However, maintaining a relationship is not easy either. It requires effort and time. You cannot just neglect it and give excuses for it. You need to act responsibly or you might do damage unintentionally. Here are some things that need to end before any damage is done.
Stop collecting their mistakes.
It is a natural habit for most people to remember all the mistakes that their partner makes and then bring them up a lot. Habits like these need to end.
It is assumed that just by telling them that you’ve forgiven and forgotten, the problem has ended. Well this is not true. When you tell them this, you need to act this way too. Keeping a list of their mistakes will not make things easy. It will bring negativity and you will unintentionally keeping grudges. End this.