You are with someone and you love them a lot. You think that you both will stay together forever and it would require no effort at all. I’m sorry but if anyone tells you that then they are lying. Relationships are a bond between two people and no two people are the same. We are a product of our personalities, our circumstances and our experiences and these factors make us all very different. For two people together, differences could come and sometimes, you’d feel that they are breaking you apart. Don’t worry. There are things you can do to keep you both together. They are:
6. Talk politely.
No matter how mad or irritated you are, you should always be polite with one another. Loudness and rudeness are the worst things that you can add to your tone. They open up the path to anger and anger affects our thinking in a horrible way. The barrier stops our mind and we end up screaming and saying things that scar our bond forever. Be careful because doing such things right will make your relationship last longer.
5. Don’t point fingers for long.
You know you are mad at them for something they did and you feel like telling them that it’s their fault. That’s a very natural things to do, but remember that pointing fingers for long doesn’t have a good impact on the other person. Let them know that a certain thing they did made you angry and discuss how you could solve the issue. Don’t insist that they are at fault and that they are always wrong. You love them for who they are and you want this to last longer – remember that.