When you’re in a relationship, everything that you do reflects how happy you are. And if you have let yourself go in your relationship, it shows evidently in anything you do. However, since you are the person dealing with everything on your own, you might not be able to recognize if you have let yourself go in your relationship.
People around you, however, will let you know if they sense something fishy. But as the famous saying goes, ‘Love blinds us all’. It won’t be a surprise if you don’t pay heed to what people say since you’ve drowned yourself in the river of love.
In the meantime, if you’re reading this article, you’re probably thinking about where you stand in your relationship. Here are a few signs to help you out:
9. You Don’t Keep Expectations
It’s one thing to mutually compromise and understand your beloved’s problems. It’s another thing to kill your expectations from your love just because they can’t keep up with it. You cannot let yourself go in your relationship without fighting for what you deserve.
8. You Don’t Spend Time With Yourself
Spending time with yourself is one the healthiest practices you can keep. If you’ve let go of your ‘me’ time, you’ve probably also let yourself go in your relationship. Spending time at the salon, taking a walk in the park or simply enjoying a cup coffee while the rain falls – these are food for your soul.
7. You Have Changed. Your Looks. Your Personality.
From head to toe, you have become a different person. From the way you walk to the way you talk, think and act, everything about you has changed. It is a good thing to tweak your personality so it’s compatible with your love but if you’ve killed who you truly are, it’s not a good sign.